1) TAKE CONTROL
You and your partner are kissing. You gently start to take control by placing your hands on either side of his face, holding his cheeks and guiding his lips. In doing so, you are in control of the amount of pressure and motion of his mouth and, in turn, he feels the warmth of your hands. This can be especially good if your partner's mouth is too loose or open for you. Then it is your responsibility to kiss him as you LOVE TO BE KISSED.
2) GET HIM TO FOLLOW YOUR LEAD
Stop when you want and tell your partner, 'I just love kissing. It's the one thing that gets me ______________ [fill in the blank; for example, you might add the word 'hot' or 'turned on']. Then look at him and say, 'Will you show me what it feels like to be kissed by me?'
3) INTRODUCE A FANTASY
Tell him that you had a dream the other night about how he was kissing you -- and it was fabulous. Whether or not you actually had this dream, what you need to do is have an idea about what you want to ask for. So think ahead to how you want to blend the new kissing style or technique you want with what he already does. That way, you're not asking for a completely different thing and won't risk offending his ego. If you can't manage to explain what you want fully using your dream, tell him, 'You did something like this' and then show him what you want.
4) PRAISE YOUR PARTNER
Let your partner know when he has kissed you right. If he does something you really like, repeat it on him and ask if it feels as good to him as it did to you. To tweak his style, it's important that you use one-word directions, such as 'lighter,' 'left,' 'right,' etc. Men have shared with me that sentence-long guidance feels like criticism, while one-word comments sound like gentle direction. Remember that while you may feel that the more you tell, the better, he will be hearing your words through his own sexual gender filter.
Don't assume that one time through will work. Men often need reminding (yes, even when it comes to better kissing and better sex). Repeat exercises 1-4 as often as necessary. And enjoy!
6) GREAT BREATH
This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
7) MOIST LIPS
You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
9) CLOSE EYES
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
10) OPEN LIPS
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breathe through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
11) CLOSED LIPS
This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
12) WHAT IS FRENCH KISS
Touching your tongue with your partner's for excellent pleasures
13) OPEN YOUR LIPS
Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into her mouth. If you wish you can play with her tongue by circling her with your own. Have fun with it; explore more if you want so
15) LIPS MOVEMENT
You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try to run the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
16) REPETITIVE KISSING
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top or bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
17) NIP KISSING
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date, while suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date/partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before; otherwise you may shock your partner
18) SURPRISE KISSING
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Use flavored lip balm to their surprise and delight. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
19) LAYING DOWN DRAW
If she is lying down draw one of her arms above her head and lightly hold her hand. Commence by kissing the soft area on the inside of her upper arm - from her elbow down to her chest. For variation, trail the tip of your tongue in a zigzag down this area
20) GENTLE KISSING
Kiss her gently near the clavicle (collar bone), then run your tongue in a zig zag up to her ear very slowly. Give her earlobe a little nibble. It's all in the neck guys Ö
21) LEAD TO FRENCH KISS
When you're sitting close to your love, start out by softly stroking their face, slowly move your hand to their mouth then very lightly brush the lower lip with one of your fingers. If they seem to love this, then place the tip of that finger in their mouth. This leads to a great French kiss!
22) DRIVE HER CRAZY
Gently kiss your partner on the neck, cheek, jaw, and slowly move closer to his/her lips. When you reach their lips, they will be all the more excited to kiss you!
23) EROTIC KISS
Start by pouring a glass of wine. Take a few sips to get the taste in your mouth. When you lead him to bed, bring the wine with you. While kissing him, dip your finger in the wine. Trace his lips and mouth with your wine-soaked finger and lick the wine off slowly and gently. Take your time. Kissing can be very erotic.
24) KISS COMPETES
Play a kissing game! The object of the game is to make your partner try to kiss you. This could be done by lightly kissing her neck, breathing into her ear, kissing her cheeks, and lightly kissing her lips. Whoever lasts the longest wins?
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