1. ROOM
Find a room both you and your partner are comfortable in. Remember that this choice needs to be somewhere that is private and that you can alter to fit the mood.
2. SPACE
You will need some space to make alterations to the room and once the mood has been set. Be sure to move furniture if needed to provide an open floor space if applicable.
3. LIGHTING
Lighting is very important to setting the mood for sex. Often, soft lighting is best. Try any variety of ways to adjust the lighting before you begin.
4. CANDLES
Candles are the most popular way to create mood lighting. Scented candles can add another dimension to the mood as well. Be sure the candles are in an open place but out of the way.
5. DIMMERS
If you have dimmer switches for your lights, dim the lighting to a level that will enable you to see your partner but is much softer than normal.
6. LAMPS
Lamps are a great way to add a different lighting level to a particular room. Move soft lamps from other rooms into the one being used. Turn off overhead lights.
7. SMELL
Smell can really enhance the mood of love. Aromatherapy oils, lotions and incense can greatly change a mood and help your partner relax.
8. OILS
Aromatherapy oils for relaxation or for romance are a great way to integrate smell into setting the mood. These can be burned or can be placed in receptacles to evaporate.
9. INCENSE
Incense is in stick or cone form and is burned to give off a good smelling smoke. Find a scent that both you and your partner enjoy. Place the burning stick in an incense holder away from flammable objects and out of the way.
10. PLACEMENT
Placement of oils, incense, lamps and candles can make a big difference. Too much smell or light can be distracting while not enough can lead to accidents. Be sure burning objects are in a safe place away from you're and your partner.
11. SOUND
Sound can really help to set the mood by taking your mind and your partner's mind off your busy lives. Music and other relaxing sounds are the best to use.
12. MUSIC
Find relaxing or exciting music. This can be anything that both you and your partner enjoy. Be creative - there are no limits!
13. SOUND MACHINES
Sleep machines and other sound machines can be a great way to add a relaxing aspect to your sexy mood. Water, birds, and other sounds are best.
14. FOUNTAINS
If you have a small fountain in your home, move it to the room where you will be initiating your encounter. Fill it and turn it on to add a relaxing sound to the room.
15. SIGHT
The human brain is a very powerful sex organ, and visual stimulation is a great way to arouse yourself and your partner.
16. FIRE
If you have a fire place, and you have chosen that room as your place of mood setting, start a fire and watch it with your partner. The sound of the fire also adds to the mood.
17. WATER
Watching a fountain, a river, a lake or an ocean is a wonderful aphrodisiac. Water is both calming and highly erotic, plus the sound adds another important quality.
18. TV/MOVIES
While TV and movies can be distracting, if there is a special pornographic movie or a scene from a movie that arouses you and your partner, watch that together.
19. AT HOME
Setting the mood at home is a lot easier than trying to set the mood when you are away. Find a room you both enjoy or one you have never made love in.
20. AT A HOTEL
Sometimes a change in scenery can be just the added touch you need to set sparks flying on your sexual relationship. If you can afford it, get a hotel room for a night. Order champagne and strawberries!
21. AT A BED AND BREAKFAST
Again, changing the setting of love can help to set the mood. A Bed and Breakfast in a remote area can be a calming and exciting change for a weekend.
22. AT A MOTEL
If you want to add some kink to your life, try going to a seedy motel and getting a room. Renting the room by the hour can also be exciting and add a sex game aspect to the mood.
23. AT A RESTAURANT
Eat sexual foods like oysters, wine and chocolate. Describe the tastes and textures of the foods to each other.
24. IN THE KITCHEN
When you are at home, try different rooms in your home to change things up. In the kitchen, try cooking a meal for your partner to add to the mood.
25. IN THE DINING ROOM
After cooking a meal for or with your partner, serve him or her the special meal on nice dishes. Light candles on the table and serve exotic aphrodisiac foods.
26. IN THE LIVING ROOM
In the living room, utilize the things you have there: use the stereo, the television, and the couch to create a mood of romance or of eroticism.
27. IN THE REC ROOM
The recreation room can add a teenage feeling to your sexual encounter. Try kissing on the sofa while watching a movie!
28. IN THE BEDROOM
While the bedroom is the most typical place to set the mood, it is also the most private. Utilize candles, scented oils and music to set the mood here.
29. IN THE BATHROOM
Run a bath for your partner. Let him or her enjoy the bath accompanied by candles and music, or join him or her in the bath.
30. THE FIVE SENSES
When you are setting the mood, it is incredibly important to appeal to the five senses: sight, hearing, taste, touch, and smell.
31. EYES
Stimulating the eyes with erotic sights or romantic gestures is an important part of setting the mood.
32. EARS
Have your partner listen to his or her favorite music or sounds in order to help him or her relax and enjoy your company. Audio stimulation is essential to setting the mood.
33. TONGUE
Stimulation of the taste buds can add a whole new level or eroticism to your sexual encounter. Set the mood by giving your partner a blind taste test of chocolates or other treats.
34. SKIN
The sense of touch is sometimes thought of as the ultimate way to set the mood. By wrapping yourself and your partner in soft materials when you are naked, arousal is raised tremendously!
35. NOSE
Appeal to your partner's sense of smell by using scents that he or she enjoys. Make sure that neither of you are allergic to any smells before you do this!
36. TALKING
Talking is the best way to know what your partner wants and how he or she wants you to set the mood. Find out what his or her favorite smells, tastes, and sounds are before you try to choose anything.
37. ACTING
Acting on your desires and passions is a good way to set the mood and to show your partner what turns you on. But don't forget to act on his or her desires as well.
38. SHOWING
By showing your partner your pleasures and desires, you can not only set the mood, but you will also learn a little bit more about your partner!
39. LISTENING
Listening to your partner's desires and pleasures is the only way to learn about your partner and please him or her.
40. PARTICIPATING
Participating in the process of setting the mood is a good way to show your partner that you are interested in setting the mood for sex.
41. SWITCH
If you usually initiate sex or set the mood for sex, switch with your partner. Allow him or her to be the one to set the mood. This, of course, also works in reverse as well.
42. TAKE TURNS
Take turns setting the mood for love and sex. If you set the romantic atmosphere one weekend, let your partner do it the following weekend.
43. ENCOURAGE
Encourage your partner to take the initiative to set the mood on his own or her own. Some people are shy and need encouragement!
44. REASSURE
If your partner is shy or is concerned that something may be wrong with the way he or she set up the romantic interlude, reassure him or her that everything is okay.
45. CORRECT
If something is wrong, i.e. a smell makes you cough or the oil makes you break out in a rash, gently let your partner know what is wrong so it can be changed for the next time.
46. EXPRESS YOURSELF
Tell your partner your feelings for him or her. Vocalizing your emotions is one of the best ways to set the mood! Never express and emotion that is not true.
47. LOVE
Tell your partner how much you love him or her. Explain why you love him or her and describe the moment when you fell in love or knew that you were in love.
48. DESIRE
Feeling desire can be very exciting. Tell your partner how much you desire him or her. Explain what it is that turns you on and why.
49. LUST
Lust is an overpowering emotion and is often contagious. Telling your partner how much you want him or her can easily transfer to him or her lusting after you!
50. PASSION
Feeling tremendous passion for someone is another powerful emotion. Passion can translate into love or lust. Express this to your partner.
Find a room both you and your partner are comfortable in. Remember that this choice needs to be somewhere that is private and that you can alter to fit the mood.
2. SPACE
You will need some space to make alterations to the room and once the mood has been set. Be sure to move furniture if needed to provide an open floor space if applicable.
3. LIGHTING
Lighting is very important to setting the mood for sex. Often, soft lighting is best. Try any variety of ways to adjust the lighting before you begin.
4. CANDLES
Candles are the most popular way to create mood lighting. Scented candles can add another dimension to the mood as well. Be sure the candles are in an open place but out of the way.
5. DIMMERS
If you have dimmer switches for your lights, dim the lighting to a level that will enable you to see your partner but is much softer than normal.
6. LAMPS
Lamps are a great way to add a different lighting level to a particular room. Move soft lamps from other rooms into the one being used. Turn off overhead lights.
7. SMELL
Smell can really enhance the mood of love. Aromatherapy oils, lotions and incense can greatly change a mood and help your partner relax.
8. OILS
Aromatherapy oils for relaxation or for romance are a great way to integrate smell into setting the mood. These can be burned or can be placed in receptacles to evaporate.
9. INCENSE
Incense is in stick or cone form and is burned to give off a good smelling smoke. Find a scent that both you and your partner enjoy. Place the burning stick in an incense holder away from flammable objects and out of the way.
10. PLACEMENT
Placement of oils, incense, lamps and candles can make a big difference. Too much smell or light can be distracting while not enough can lead to accidents. Be sure burning objects are in a safe place away from you're and your partner.
11. SOUND
Sound can really help to set the mood by taking your mind and your partner's mind off your busy lives. Music and other relaxing sounds are the best to use.
12. MUSIC
Find relaxing or exciting music. This can be anything that both you and your partner enjoy. Be creative - there are no limits!
13. SOUND MACHINES
Sleep machines and other sound machines can be a great way to add a relaxing aspect to your sexy mood. Water, birds, and other sounds are best.
14. FOUNTAINS
If you have a small fountain in your home, move it to the room where you will be initiating your encounter. Fill it and turn it on to add a relaxing sound to the room.
15. SIGHT
The human brain is a very powerful sex organ, and visual stimulation is a great way to arouse yourself and your partner.
16. FIRE
If you have a fire place, and you have chosen that room as your place of mood setting, start a fire and watch it with your partner. The sound of the fire also adds to the mood.
17. WATER
Watching a fountain, a river, a lake or an ocean is a wonderful aphrodisiac. Water is both calming and highly erotic, plus the sound adds another important quality.
18. TV/MOVIES
While TV and movies can be distracting, if there is a special pornographic movie or a scene from a movie that arouses you and your partner, watch that together.
19. AT HOME
Setting the mood at home is a lot easier than trying to set the mood when you are away. Find a room you both enjoy or one you have never made love in.
20. AT A HOTEL
Sometimes a change in scenery can be just the added touch you need to set sparks flying on your sexual relationship. If you can afford it, get a hotel room for a night. Order champagne and strawberries!
21. AT A BED AND BREAKFAST
Again, changing the setting of love can help to set the mood. A Bed and Breakfast in a remote area can be a calming and exciting change for a weekend.
22. AT A MOTEL
If you want to add some kink to your life, try going to a seedy motel and getting a room. Renting the room by the hour can also be exciting and add a sex game aspect to the mood.
23. AT A RESTAURANT
Eat sexual foods like oysters, wine and chocolate. Describe the tastes and textures of the foods to each other.
24. IN THE KITCHEN
When you are at home, try different rooms in your home to change things up. In the kitchen, try cooking a meal for your partner to add to the mood.
25. IN THE DINING ROOM
After cooking a meal for or with your partner, serve him or her the special meal on nice dishes. Light candles on the table and serve exotic aphrodisiac foods.
26. IN THE LIVING ROOM
In the living room, utilize the things you have there: use the stereo, the television, and the couch to create a mood of romance or of eroticism.
27. IN THE REC ROOM
The recreation room can add a teenage feeling to your sexual encounter. Try kissing on the sofa while watching a movie!
28. IN THE BEDROOM
While the bedroom is the most typical place to set the mood, it is also the most private. Utilize candles, scented oils and music to set the mood here.
29. IN THE BATHROOM
Run a bath for your partner. Let him or her enjoy the bath accompanied by candles and music, or join him or her in the bath.
30. THE FIVE SENSES
When you are setting the mood, it is incredibly important to appeal to the five senses: sight, hearing, taste, touch, and smell.
31. EYES
Stimulating the eyes with erotic sights or romantic gestures is an important part of setting the mood.
32. EARS
Have your partner listen to his or her favorite music or sounds in order to help him or her relax and enjoy your company. Audio stimulation is essential to setting the mood.
33. TONGUE
Stimulation of the taste buds can add a whole new level or eroticism to your sexual encounter. Set the mood by giving your partner a blind taste test of chocolates or other treats.
34. SKIN
The sense of touch is sometimes thought of as the ultimate way to set the mood. By wrapping yourself and your partner in soft materials when you are naked, arousal is raised tremendously!
35. NOSE
Appeal to your partner's sense of smell by using scents that he or she enjoys. Make sure that neither of you are allergic to any smells before you do this!
36. TALKING
Talking is the best way to know what your partner wants and how he or she wants you to set the mood. Find out what his or her favorite smells, tastes, and sounds are before you try to choose anything.
37. ACTING
Acting on your desires and passions is a good way to set the mood and to show your partner what turns you on. But don't forget to act on his or her desires as well.
38. SHOWING
By showing your partner your pleasures and desires, you can not only set the mood, but you will also learn a little bit more about your partner!
39. LISTENING
Listening to your partner's desires and pleasures is the only way to learn about your partner and please him or her.
40. PARTICIPATING
Participating in the process of setting the mood is a good way to show your partner that you are interested in setting the mood for sex.
41. SWITCH
If you usually initiate sex or set the mood for sex, switch with your partner. Allow him or her to be the one to set the mood. This, of course, also works in reverse as well.
42. TAKE TURNS
Take turns setting the mood for love and sex. If you set the romantic atmosphere one weekend, let your partner do it the following weekend.
43. ENCOURAGE
Encourage your partner to take the initiative to set the mood on his own or her own. Some people are shy and need encouragement!
44. REASSURE
If your partner is shy or is concerned that something may be wrong with the way he or she set up the romantic interlude, reassure him or her that everything is okay.
45. CORRECT
If something is wrong, i.e. a smell makes you cough or the oil makes you break out in a rash, gently let your partner know what is wrong so it can be changed for the next time.
46. EXPRESS YOURSELF
Tell your partner your feelings for him or her. Vocalizing your emotions is one of the best ways to set the mood! Never express and emotion that is not true.
47. LOVE
Tell your partner how much you love him or her. Explain why you love him or her and describe the moment when you fell in love or knew that you were in love.
48. DESIRE
Feeling desire can be very exciting. Tell your partner how much you desire him or her. Explain what it is that turns you on and why.
49. LUST
Lust is an overpowering emotion and is often contagious. Telling your partner how much you want him or her can easily transfer to him or her lusting after you!
50. PASSION
Feeling tremendous passion for someone is another powerful emotion. Passion can translate into love or lust. Express this to your partner.
for me its just a bitchy cunt that matters....and for my cunt, what matters is a dick as good as mine....why so serious buddy!! have it raw :D
ReplyDeleteSunny these tips and techniques are for love-making, not Fucking :D
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